net/smc: Fix possible access to freed memory in link clear

In the Linux kernel, the following vulnerability has been resolved:

net/smc: Fix possible access to freed memory in link clear

After modifying the QP to the Error state, all RX WR would be completed
with WC in IB_WC_WR_FLUSH_ERR status. Current implementation does not
wait for it is done, but destroy the QP and free the link group directly.
So there is a risk that accessing the freed memory in tasklet context.

Here is a crash example:

BUG: unable to handle page fault for address: ffffffff8f220860
#PF: supervisor write access in kernel mode
#PF: error_code(0x0002) - not-present page
PGD f7300e067 P4D f7300e067 PUD f7300f063 PMD 8c4e45063 PTE 800ffff08c9df060
Oops: 0002 [#1] SMP PTI
CPU: 1 PID: 0 Comm: swapper/1 Kdump: loaded Tainted: G S OE 5.10.0-0607+ #23
Hardware name: Inspur NF5280M4/YZMB-00689-101, BIOS 4.1.20 07/09/2018
RIP: 0010:native_queued_spin_lock_slowpath+0x176/0x1b0
Code: f3 90 48 8b 32 48 85 f6 74 f6 eb d5 c1 ee 12 83 e0 03 83 ee 01 48 c1 e0 05 48 63 f6 48 05 00 c8 02 00 48 03 04 f5 00 09 98 8e <48> 89 10 8b 42 08 85 c0 75 09 f3 90 8b 42 08 85 c0 74 f7 48 8b 32
RSP: 0018:ffffb3b6c001ebd8 EFLAGS: 00010086
RAX: ffffffff8f220860 RBX: 0000000000000246 RCX: 0000000000080000
RDX: ffff91db1f86c800 RSI: 000000000000173c RDI: ffff91db62bace00
RBP: ffff91db62bacc00 R08: 0000000000000000 R09: c00000010000028b
R10: 0000000000055198 R11: ffffb3b6c001ea58 R12: ffff91db80e05010
R13: 000000000000000a R14: 0000000000000006 R15: 0000000000000040
FS: 0000000000000000(0000) GS:ffff91db1f840000(0000) knlGS:0000000000000000
CS: 0010 DS: 0000 ES: 0000 CR0: 0000000080050033
CR2: ffffffff8f220860 CR3: 00000001f9580004 CR4: 00000000003706e0
DR0: 0000000000000000 DR1: 0000000000000000 DR2: 0000000000000000
DR3: 0000000000000000 DR6: 00000000fffe0ff0 DR7: 0000000000000400
Call Trace:
<IRQ>
_raw_spin_lock_irqsave+0x30/0x40
mlx5_ib_poll_cq+0x4c/0xc50 [mlx5_ib]
smc_wr_rx_tasklet_fn+0x56/0xa0 [smc]
tasklet_action_common.isra.21+0x66/0x100
__do_softirq+0xd5/0x29c
asm_call_irq_on_stack+0x12/0x20
</IRQ>
do_softirq_own_stack+0x37/0x40
irq_exit_rcu+0x9d/0xa0
sysvec_call_function_single+0x34/0x80
asm_sysvec_call_function_single+0x12/0x20